'Huge' Taylor Swift fan refuses to watch Super Bowl with boyfriend if others start 'ranting' against the star

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A young female who calls herself a "huge" Taylor Swift instrumentality is refusing to subordinate her fellow astatine his parents' location connected Sunday nighttime to watch nan Super Bowl — nan biggest shot crippled of nan year, to put it mildly — because nan boyfriend's begetter can't guidelines Swift and has been going connected chaotic "rants" against nan popular star, according to a societal media station that's prompted hundreds of group to chime successful connected nan dispute.

The young female said she's "prepared to perchance upset immoderate people" by sharing her story, according to her written post, but indicated she believes powerfully successful her constituent of position and wanted to cognize others' perspectives connected it.

She and her boyfriend — they're some 23, according to her station — person been together "since precocious schoolhouse (about 5 years) and we unrecorded together," nan young female wrote connected nan Reddit page known arsenic "AITA" ("Am I nan a--hole?"). 

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She added that nan mates "are very solid," and nan standoff betwixt them isn't "a relationship-jeopardizing issue."

However, wrote nan woman, who goes by nan username "throwRAfiba," she "would simply conscionable for illustration to know" if she's successful nan incorrect for her opinion.

"I emotion Taylor Swift," nan female wrote. "I’ve loved her for arsenic agelong arsenic I tin remember, [ever] since she released her first medium erstwhile I was for illustration five." 

"Her euphony has been a portion of my life for my full life, and if you perceive to her, you cognize that it tin really resonate."

She added, "I can’t definitive capable — I americium a immense fan. Everyone knows this astir me."

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But her boyfriend's father, she wrote, "has a inclination to beryllium rather misogynistic."

And "maybe," nan young female besides said, "what you could telephone ‘old school.’"

She said nan begetter has been going disconnected connected agelong "tangents" astir Taylor Swift's relationship to nan Super Bowl this shot play and her beingness astatine playoff games. 

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"It’s not conscionable that she’s being shown" astatine games that's bothering nan father, wrote nan young female — "but that her euphony sucks, she sucks, she’s this, she’s that."

The young female said she's simply looking for immoderate respect for nan measurement she feels.

"I consciousness for illustration you don’t moreover person to for illustration her aliases her euphony to respect that personification is simply a fan," she said.

"And earlier anyone tells maine to ‘just disregard it,’" she noted that nan father's angry "rants" astir Swift perchance could spell connected for nan full game. 

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The female reported that her fellow asked her "today if I’d want to watch the Super Bowl astatine his parents' house. Normally it would beryllium an contiguous yes," she said — but she replied that she'd spell only if nan begetter kept quiet astir Taylor Swift.

She said her fellow "agrees" nan behaviour is "overboard" but thinks she's a fool "for making it a information because that’s ‘just really he is.’"

Said nan female of her boyfriend's father, "He tin beryllium beautiful intimidating, truthful I’m not astir to commencement conflict complete Taylor Swift. I conscionable simply won’t go."

She asked others astir her stance, "Am I being petty?"

Fox News Digital reached retired to a scientist for insights into nan situation.

"This young female has a correct to her feelings and her tastes but doesn't person a correct to effort to alteration her boyfriend’s father’s feelings," said Erica Komisar, a New York-based psychoanalyst, parenting authority and author, to Fox News Digital.

"She does person nan correct to person her boundaries respected," Komisar added. "It's a bully trial of nan narration pinch her fellow to beryllium capable to group gentle but patient boundaries pinch her potential early father-in-law." 

She added, "By utilizing an ‘I’ connection and telling nan early father-in-law really his disapproval of Swift makes her feel, she builds a narration pinch her boyfriend’s dad, whereas if she skips nan Super Bowl, it's a missed opportunity to reside issues that will persist passim her relationship."

Said Komisar, "She whitethorn moreover gain her father-in-law's respect by mounting limits."

One commenter wrote connected nan subreddit astir nan story, addressing nan remarks straight to nan young woman, "Not judge why you’d want to taxable yourself to a predictable 3-hour agelong convention of comments you’ll find cringy and enraging — and there’s nary measurement your [boyfriend] will take sides you if it happens, fixed that he’s already minimizing his father’s actions."

Added nan commenter successful this apical "upvoted" comment, "So I’d return a walk if I were you."

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The writer besides said nan fellow would not beryllium benignant if he "guilted you into going." 

Another personification successful a celebrated remark wrote, "Why discarded clip there? If anything, find a friend you tin bask it pinch instead. Turn nan [boyfriend] down, and fto him cognize you'd alternatively person fun."

Another responder took a wholly different tack: "Show up pinch snacks and opportunity you’re present for nan Taylor Swift Bowl."

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